review: Madewell high-riser jeans

Madewell High-Riser Skinny Jeans

Retails for: $125 (purchased with coupon code)

Verdict: The fit is amazing, no fear of showing the back crack, rich indigo color, super soft.

I read a recent interview with Bethenny Frankel, in which she stated that, she liked to 'edit her closet' in her spare time. Most people would roll their eyes at this, but it actually makes perfect sense to me. Women accumulate so much stuff over time...jeans here, a cardigan there, another pair of wedges to go with those....before you know it you've run out of hangers again and are cursing/rummaging through your closet for that old Rachel Pally cardigan that's lost in a sea of black cardigans. *breathe* I imagine this situation is only worse for someone in Bethenny's position, who is able to make countless frivolous purchases and is also gifted items on a daily basis.

My point (if you're still with me) is that I have come to love editing my closet. Every time I'm bored or have a few extra minutes, I'll stand in front of the closet and pull a few items that I want to evaluate. I'll try them on, lay out a few outfits with the pieces...and if I'm struggling to make them work...out they go. A few weeks ago, I pulled all of my cheapo Forever 21 skinny jeans and decided to toss them. I was never able to have a comfortable day in these. They would always fall down my hips, ending with baggy knees and a large drop crotch. I attribute this to the low low rise, cheap denim, and cuts for anyone other than women with child-bearing hips. The worst part? In my sad cast-off pile sat 6 pairs of $9-$11 skinny jeans...nearly $70 worth! Thankfully, I'd worn out the cost on all of them, so no love lost.

I've been reading about the Madewell High Riser jean for some time...almost always backordered on the website and universally flattering. Costing right around $100 with a coupon code, I decided these would be my investment skinnies. The verdict?

These are skinny and absolutely hug my legs, but have more heft than jeggings, while still being super soft. The waist is high (2 inches below my bellow button), but I love the extra material that holds in the tummy. As a sidenote, doesn't it seem true that our preferred pant rise is inversely proportional with our age? Ugh, there I've gone and embarrassed myself with nerdspeak. ANYWAY. Even with the high waist, there is no sign of mom jean butt. They stay put throughout the day, and never give me saggy knees. The inseam is a perfect-for-me 32'' that I can easily cuff in warmer weather.

As for the sizing, I chose my true size (right now a 27), but could probably have sized down to a 26 as they still have some give and will no doubt stretch with wear. Strangely, these are just about the only Madewell item I have that is tts...the sweaters seem to run small, while the tops and dresses seem a tad big (in no land am I currently a 0 dress size, I assure you). Back to the jeans...they fit well, the color is a perfect non-faded inky blue, and the price is right. Highly recommend!

review: Madewell Brownstone Bag

Back in January we re-did our annual budget and decided to cut back on things like eating out and shopping in an attempt to save money and start investing like grown-ups. Each month, I've got to stick to our budget allotment, which has really forced me to edit my shopping wishlist and separate the must-haves (new running sneakers) from the not-necessarys (another print blouse).

I mentioned on a past wishlist that I'd been hunting for a black purse...well Husband looked through this blog (sneaky!) and surprised me with the Marc Jacobs Classic Q Natasha purse for the holidays. I love it, and have been wearing it on the regular. The only time it doesn't work so well is for evenings out...the crossbody somehow doesn't complete my standard blouse/skinny jeans/boots look so well.

Enter the Madewell Brownstone Bag. It's been on sale via the website for months, and I bought it when Madewell was offering an additional % off sale items. I'm pleased with it so far! Now, it's no Chanel, but I love that it's a slightly dressier version of a purse I might carry everyday.

The good: The leather is buttery soft, and the construction seems really great. The bag can expand to a decent size, but doesn't appear to large. The chains are set up so that you can wear the bag crossbody or on the shoulder.

The not-so-good: The color is more of a soft black (not true black), which may bother some. Also, it's sometimes difficult to get the chains to sit just right...hard to describe but they almost never lay perfectly right (you can see a kink in the second pic below).

For the price I paid (around $70 - nearly a 50% reduction from the retail price of $158), I think this bag is well worth it. I've already got my fancy party clutches and mini designer bags for events and dressy nights out - this one fits the bill as a slightly dressier purse for dinner dates and casual drinks (which, let's face it, comprises the majority of my limited social calendar). Madewell also has a suede version and this amazing (albeit expensive) pony hair version.

pucci in the snow

And to think I almost tossed these cuties in a pre-move closet purging spree! No clue if they still make/sell them...I got them on ridiculous clearance (around $50) about 4 years ago. It took Snowmeggedon for us to be reunited.

Latest lusts

My wishlist this holiday season is small, mostly because I've been consumed with the outfitting of our new apartment, rather than myself. I'm pretty proud of the fact that it's all things I would actually use on a regular basis...not just something gorgeous to look at hanging in my closet.

Lululemon Savasana wrap

Does this not look like the coziest thing ever? Even though it's unstructured, I could see it looking great with skinny jeans and some tall boots. Instant chic outfit, even if you're still hiding a pajama top underneath. I'd wear it to brunch, while walking the dog, for travel, in spring/summer, to keep me warm in the freezing library...everywhere! In other words, I need this in my life. The website is perpetually sold out, and I haven't had any luck with my local stores, so for now, it's on the wishlist.

Marc by Marc Jacobs crossbody bag

I realized the other day that I don't have a good everyday black bag. I have a small Andrea Bruecker woven bag, that is just too small for all-day jaunts around town, and a Botkier Trigger that is wonderfully constructed, but too heavy on the shoulders. I'm thinking a black MJ crossbody from the Classic Q line would be perfect. Currently torn between the High Schooly bag (slightly big, and do I really need the hand strap?) and the Natasha ($100 cheaper, saw it on a girl in the subway and was super cute).

Gym bag

I've been carrying my gym stuff in an old Herve Chapelier tote (like nearly every other girl in the city), but realized I may need something more specialized. Since we live out in Brooklyn now, and I work from the library part of the week, I'll need to schlep my gym stuff around with me all day. In my head, I'm picturing a medium-sized bag that can be used on the shoulders or crossbody, with a few different compartments, and easily washable. Maybe something like the Gap bag pictured, but not as shiny and cheap-looking?

FitFlop Mukluk boot

I swear, turning 30 ushered in a whole host of new health issues. My back hurts if I'm doing too much 'manual labor', I have chronic heartburn, and have achy feet in anything other than running shoes. What gives? The most comfortably shoes I own are my FitFlop sandals - they are perfectly cushioned and have great arch support, so when I found out they make boots too I was thrilled. One Nordstrom reviewer describes them as orthopedic UGGs. Ha! I would LIVE in these until spring!

Price/Source List:
*Lululemon Savasana Wrap ($118)
*Marc by Marc Jacobs Classic Q High Schooly Bag ($498)
*Marc by Marc Jacobs Classic Q Natasha ($398)
*Gap Crossbody Gym Bag ($49.50)
*FitFlop Mukluk Shearling Bootie ($149.95)

review: Paige Denim Jimmy 2 Jean Shorts

Paige Denim Jimmy Jimmy Jean Shorts

Retail: $129.00
Review: Perfect fit and great not-too-short length. Good quality denim. Run big.

I've been wearing a pair of $11 Forever 21 denim shorts for most of the summer. They were originally cuffed and had a 3'' inseam. I decided long before turning 30 that any shorts I donned must have at least a 5'' inseam. I also have abnormally long legs for a short person, so 3-inchers tend to look a little obscene on me. Anyway, it took all of 10 minutes to undo the hem and I had a pair of cut-off denim shorts that were the perfect length. One small problem. The stretchy denim-like material would not let go of the crease from the cuff. No matter how much heat or steam or pressure I applied, the crease remained...and the cuff inevitably returns with every wear.

When Shopbop had one of their recent (and super rare) 20% off sale items discount, I jumped on these Paige denim shorts. I ordered a 27 (my usual size these days) and a 28 (Paige has almost always run small on me, plus Shopbop's free return policy makes ordering extra sizes an easy decision). It was love at first sight. The fading is pretty perfect and the fraying is set with a row of stitching. The color is just what I've been looking for - a darker blue that isn't too deep. The best part, aside from the length, color, feel and fit? The vanity sizing! Perhaps because they are a 'boyfriend,' relaxed fit, but these run AT LEAST a full size big. I could have easily fit into a 26 (possibly even a 25), but the 27 gave the fit I was looking for. With plenty of summer left (and suffering through what feels like a month-long heatwave), I will get plenty of use from these shorts!

welcome summer!

Wow has it really been a month since my last post? We went on a much-needed vaca to LA and Vegas at the end of May, my 30th birthday came and went, and now we're starting to get those sticky hot NYC days and nights. That is all to say, I've been slacking! I'm also trying to come up with a new blog title and am desperately stuck...not being able to change the title has really been a mental block for any sort of blogging. I know...excuse, excuses! I have a couple of new purchases that I need to blog as well as some reviews from our vaca. For now, this will have to do:

I spotted these in LA, and have unexpectedly fallen in love. I was never digging the oxford look, but there is something about the Joie Louie Louie loafers that is so adorable. Maybe it's the subtle, menswear-inspired detailing, or the slightly deconstructed laceless look. In any case, I think these are a great year-round shoe that I'll strongly consider if they go on sale!

Joie Louie Louie loafer ($198)
(Come in 2 colors: Caviar and a Light Brown.)

a little bit rock and roll

When it comes to wrist accessories, I tend to favor either super simple bracelets or cuffs that can stand on their own with little other jewelry. When I spotted this cuff on the J Crew website, I automatically started thinking of scenarios and outfits in which it could work. To toughen up a LBD, add edge to a white button-down and black pencil skirt work combo, or serve as the perfect accessory to that blazer and tee combo you've been wearing every weekend. It kind of gives you that I-just-threw-some-stuff-on layered vibe that you see on the super chic girls running around the city, but from a mass retailer that's accessible to everyone. Yay!

Double-Chained Mesh Bracelet ($75)

review: H&M garden collection

I've mentioned before that I am loving floaty, floral, watercolor-esque type clothing lately. A floaty top with skinny jeans and a cardigan or leather jacket has become my go-to outfit formula lately. So, when I saw that H&M was releasing a "garden collection" full of floaty, bohemian pieces, I knew I wanted to check it out.

According to the website, the collection is made from "environmentally adapted materials recycled polyester, organic cotton and organic linen." Prices top out at about $60 for the more coveted pieces (jackets and the rose blazer), but most fall within the $20-$30 range. You would imagine the pieces to be soft, airy, textured, etc. My verdict? SOME are, MOST are not, and I found much of it to be pretty unflattering on me.

My closest H&M is notorious for slow cashier lines and congested and sauna-like fitting rooms. I just grabbed whatever I could find in my size and waited in line. When I finally tried everything on at home, I was a little unsure. The sizing runs a bit big, and while exaggerated batwing sleeves look fab on a thin, tall model...they seemed to overwhelm me. Same with the double-layered ruffles on the tops and dresses. I took a 4 in everything, and probably could have managed with a 2, save for the top and dress that have the babydoll-tie-top.



I don't know if it's because I am curvy yet small-boned and petite, but the 3rd top shown just overwhelmed me. The 1st top was cute but I didn't dig the elastic at the sleeves. The 2nd was also cute, but I doubted whether I could pull off huge bohemian sleeves. I'm still considering the last dress, but I feel like I might wear it once and forget it. Truth be told - I was on the fence about all of them. I mean everyone is raving about this collection...was I crazy? Then I tried everything on for Husband and he was very 'meh if that's what's in style now and you like it, you should keep it.' Coming from someone who rarely, if ever has commentary on my fashion choices aside from 'I love that on you' and 'no you are not and do not look fat,' this meant a lot to me. He didn't like a single piece, reinforcing my gut feelings.

The polyester items are unlined, and all of the ones I had purchased had some loose threads. I doubt the items would fall apart on me if I were to keep them, but still annoying. I will say, when I looked at the organic cotton items - they all felt soft and light. Coming in white and soft, pastel colors, they seemed like great pieces to pair with basics like khaki shorts. I didn't grab any of these, since I was shopping with tunnel vision for prints. But, they were available in plenty of sizes. I also saw a girl wearing the coveted red rose blazer, with some faded grey skinnies and a white tee. She was also super tall and model-thin. Of course, it looked great on her!

And I think that's the lesson here. Sure this stuff may have looked ok on me, but it wasn't flattering. Doesn't mean it won't look super cute on anyone else. I'd rather take the $20-$25 each piece cost, and put it towards one of the nicer pieces on my wishlist. Now, if that Ali Ro dress would only go on sale...

j crew cardigans that are cheap!

J Crew prices have been steadily creeping up over the last few seasons, and I'm surely not the only one who's noticed. Yes, their stuff has gotten cuter, but the quality hasn't necessarily kept up to warrant across-the-board inflation. Anyway, because of said pricing, I rarely even glance at the full-price stuff...only visiting the site when I'm tipped off via my GReader that there is an additional % off final sale (the in-store sales have been a sad sad mess, so I stay away).

But then I spotted this cardi...a hair under $40 and apparently machine-washable! In a cotton/modal fabric that could work year round. I find that modal fabrics drape much better than traditional sweater knits (my Rachel Pally long cardigan is one of my favorites because of this). No buttons, but it could easily be belted or cinched with a pin or brooch. I kind of want all 4 colors!

J Crew Always Cardigan ($39.50)
comes in navy, black, graphite, ginger (a light pink)

review: old navy spring/summer

Old Navy has really been surprising me lately - picking up the slack of its more expensive siblings (Banana Republic and the Gap). I'm finding the quality and style has really improved, and the sales are not to be missed. I bought a few things recently and have to rave...

Ruffled One-Piece Swimsuit in black ($29.50, currently on sale for $19)

I've written about my interest in finding a cute one-piece, and this one fit the bill. Ignore the reviews that say it doesn't work for larger chests. This absolutely fit me well and held everything in place. The bust features removable padding...when taken out it made a world of difference. I sized up one for a more comfortable fit up top.

Burnished wedges in brown ($29.50)

I have always had luck with Old Navy shoes. They are moderately comfortable, especially for the price. Strangely, Gap and BR shoes KILL my feet. These wedges are much more adorable irl. I wouldn't advise wearing them if you'll be on your feet all day, but for a few hours, they are definitely a comfortable and stylish choice. The faux leather doesn't look faux, and the detailing makes them look more $$$ than they really are. Fit is tts.

Slub-knit scoopneck tee ($16.50 on sale for $12 in white)

This was a last-minute purchase but I love it for casual, lazy days. The slub-knit adds some texture, and I like the look of the reinforced neckline. I bought it in white, and the material is thick enough to not be see-through. Buyer beware - this top runs huge. I took an XS, which had room to spare. It's long enough so I can wear it with leggings and a cardigan and not feel overexposed.

Khaki Shorts 5'' inseam ($19.50)

Yes, I've embraced shorts again after a 10-year hiatus. I'm only partly kidding. I just went through a phase (since high school lol) where I did not want to wear shorts...unless they were 1) for the gym or 2) bermudas. Lately though, I've been loving the look of mid-thigh shorts with billowy tops or even tees and cropped jackets. I thought a black pair might be perfect to test out, for dressing up or down. What I love about these is the 5'' inseam - not too long, not too short. 3'' is just a little too short for this geezer.


Everyone should drop into Old Navy if they get a chance this spring/summer. I spotted cardigans and tees in a million colors, adorable floaty maxi dresses in muted floral prints, gladiator- and thong-style sandals, and tons of great workout gear (also bought a few long-sleeve running tees that have thumbholes for $11)!

Spring wishlist

I have a fairly small wishlist for spring. Mostly because I've managed to find several of my wants on supersale or with great discount codes/cashback offers. I'm still digging prints of all kinds! And because NYC has been blessed with the first real taste of spring this week (highs in the 70s!), I've finally allowed myself to get excited about shedding the layers and bulk!

Ali Ro Silk Racerback dress

I'm pretty sure this is going to be the dress I wear to curl up in the fetal position and cry celebrate my 30th birthday. Thankfully, I'll be doing it with JUST my best friend (aka Husband) in Sin City. Picturing this dress belted and paired with...

Frye Corrinna Wedge

...some cognac-colored wedges! Okay, so the above pictured aren't cognac, but I do like the shape of these and suspect they look much better irl. If I wanted to go the espadrille route...

Dolce Vita Uma Espadrille

...These lovelies would be a great choice. Adds some toughness with the buckles and thick straps to a girly and whimsical dress. I'm kind of loving these AE flats too, for daytime. As far as whimsical, no one does it better than Anthro (did you think I wouldn't have any Anthro finds in my wishlist?)...

Aniseed Skirt

Followspot Tank

Lightning Flower Tunic

I saw the Aniseed skirt on a girl out a few weeks ago. She paired it with a simple drapey black tank and some gladiator-type heels. It was hot and incredibly flattering! Since then, I've been fixated. The skirt is backordered in most sizes, so I suspect it's not going on sale anytime soon! I saw the Followspot tank while making a return at the Anthro store about a week ago. It is gorgeous irl and so fun and flirty. Talk about a top you could have a big meal in! I need to try it on next time I visit the store. The Lightning Flower Tunic is just such a pretty combo of colors. One of my girlfriends wore it out on our trip to Mexico with some straight leg dark rinse jeans and wedges and it was so cute! The colors are much more vibrant irl.

Rockport Jeannie Thong Sandal

Yeah I used to equate Rockport with geriatric. But don't these sandals look like you could walk miles in them? And they aren't as clunky as my Fitflops, which I usually trust to day-long hot weather walking. I saw these in a bright yellow on the TimeOut site, and I don't think they have appeared for sale yet. But I'm def interested in trying them!

J Crew Luxe Amber Ring Tank

J Crew Vista Paisley Twist Bandeau Tank

What would a warm-weather wishlist be without swimwear? I have been loving one-piece suits lately, and feel like the options have gotten so chic. I've found myself gravitating to tankinis and one-pieces for comfort (eat and drink by the pool on vaca and not worry about sucking in my brink-of-30 gut that is here to stay). I've only recently discovered J Crew swimwear and am thoroughly impressed with the quality. Plus the D-cup options are a big-busted gal's dream! The second suit pictured even comes in D-cup sizing!

review: lululemon gear

So I finally caved and got myself some Lululemon gear (pronounded Lulu-lemon like the fruit). For years, I've gotten by with cheap yoga pants from Old Navy, and even some more expensive Hardtail foldover pants. Tops included white men's Hanes tees, ribbed tanks, and old college tees. Over time, the tees and tanks got dingy, and the pants started getting small holes along the seams (mostly in the crotch area - how embarrassing!)

I've read a ton about the Lululemon products and brand, and have seen plenty of the pieces in action since more than half of the gym-goers in any given class are outfitted in some Lululemon. People claim the pieces wash and wear well and last for years. Even the salesgirl, while ringing me up, cheerfully proclaimed 'welcome to the addiction.' There were a few reasons I was hesitant to buy Lululemon in the past, mainly the prices. Cropped pants start at $60, while the famous Groove pants start at $98. Tanks start at $40, but can run up to $60. The items rarely go on sale - the website's loot section is usually picked over quickly and limited in sizing, and in-store price reductions vary by store, season, and even color of the product.

My change of heart came when Husband finally convinced me to just invest in some good-quality workout wear. Pieces that looked good, made me feel confident at the gym, and which were made to last. So, I ordered a few tops off of the Lululemon loot section, and visited the store to try on some pants. Here are the items I bought, and my thoughts.

Shade Tank

I studied the size chart, busted out my tape measure, and decided I'd be a 6 or 8 in Lululemon tops (for reference, I'm typically a 2/4). Took a chance on the final sale items, and purchased black, green, and a striped version. Big mistake. The black and green, both size 8, were falling off me (consequently they're up on ebay now: here and here). Even the 6 was big, but doable since I typically double up my sports bras for added support. I wore the 6 for cardio, and I always feel rather hot in it. Hot like my-skin-can't-breathe-and-I-might-melt-into-a-puddle hot. I later found out that this top is made of luon (Lululemon's signature material), and is designed to wick moisture away from the skin. In order for the fabric to efficiently do so, the garment needs to be fitted against the skin. Because my top is a touch big, the sweat just sits there and can't be wicked away. Good to know and dammit! If I actually lose some weight, I'll probably have to sell this one too. The Shade Tank has a secret pocket inside at the back, which is cool, but not super useful for me. I did use it to store my lock combo, but doubt I'd use it for keys and cash. Still, a nice feature to have.

Movement Tank

This was another loot purchase. Strangely, I bought this in a size 6 (the failed 8 is up on ebay too), and it fits ok. A size down would have fit better in the straps, but this hugs nicely without being too constricting in the tummy. Again, since I double up sports bras, the looseness up top wasn't much of an issue. What I LOVE about this one is the longer length. It is perfect to wear with running tights or cropped leggings, since it covers the tush nicely. The extra length also allows you to bunch up the fabric a bit around the middle, for added coverage. The fabric at the chest keeps the top from feeling too low cut. The Movement Tank is made of light luon, and it felt a lot more comfortable through heavy cardio sessions.

Groove Pants

I bought all of the bottoms in-store, since I wanted to make sure and get it right the first time. They are all made of regular-weight luon, and I took a size 4 in all 3 bottoms (I'm a size 26/27 in pants). I have to say, the hype about these are spot-on, They lift the rear, tighten the legs, and look amazing. The rise is a mid-rise, which I prefer for working out. IMO, these might be the best bootcut workout pants around. For reals. Online review claim that the quality of these is different from the Grooves of years past, so I'll have to update in a few weeks after repeated washings. I hope that's not the case!

Wunder Unders

I loved these so much, that I bought the full-leg version and the cropped version. Like the Groove pants, the Wunder Unders have this magic ability to slim your legs and flatter completely. The crops hit at the bottom of my calf, and the full leg version have a tiny bit of bunching at the ankle. Lululemon offers free hemming for anything (you can bring them in months after purchase and this will still apply), so if I can shorten them at anytime. These leggings are really great quality...I'm tempted to wear them out an about as well as to the gym!

Lululemon markets most of their items for yoga, although they can clearly be used for any activity (even casual wear). I'm intrigued by their running selection, especially the I Just Wanna Run tank and the Empower Crop Pants.

Some Takeaway Lessons:
* Don't be afraid of the 'educators' who work in the store. I'm usually a silent, on-my-own, leave-me-alone kind of shopper, but the girls who worked at my closest location were very knowledgeable and honest. They took one look at me, and picked my exact size in the bottoms.
*Luon products, when sized right, give you great shape, hold you in all the right places, and wick sweat away efficiently.
* The bottoms, when sized right, should be snug, but never appear shiny when you stretch. Shiny indicates they are too tight.
* You can hem for free just about anything - pants to make shorts, tunic tanks to become regular tanks. It's a nice option, especially with the cost of the items.

My advice is to visit your local store and try stuff on. I am crossing my fingers that my items hold up for the long haul. They appear to be great quality and make me look great, which is 2/3 of what I was looking for in workout wear! I apologize that some of the items I listed aren't available online. The Lululemon website leaves a lot to be desired, but I think if you call Customer Service, the inventory is more extensive than what appears online. Also, they seem to phase out their seasonal items rather quickly, so pieces come and go or are reborn in different colors and designs, all the time.

PS - I also bought some Nike workout wear that I love, so look out for an upcoming review!

love at first flip

Anthropologie Flipside Blazer ($88)

Spotted this while returning the Washed Leather Racer jacket (review to come). I immediately barreled my way over to the rack, oohing and aahing over the details. Jersey soft material! Perfect heather grey! Adorable surprise of striped cuffs! This is one I just might pay retail for!

dealing with the elements

Having lived in Michigan, DC, Maryland, and now NYC over the past 10 years, I've acquired and used my fair share of coats. This 'blizzard' that we're in the middle of reminded me of how much I appreciate my well-edited coat closet. If you enjoy seasons throughout the year, this list could be a great one to work towards for a (what I consider) a complete fall/winter wardrobe.

A long puffer coat

Living in NYC, I quickly learned that a short, hip-length puffer coat, wasn't doing anything for me. The long streets and tall buildings create wind tunnels that have, at times, literally almost blown me off my feet. You need solid insulation that will cover and protect you to at least your knees, which I've only really found in a down, quilted coat. I picked up a fab Cole Haan coat on clearance last year and have lived in it this winter. The detailing in the seams and back gives me some shape, instead of looking like a boxy pillow. When looking for a long puffer coat, I'd recommend finding detailing that will show a waist (like a belt, strategic seaming of the quilts, etc.). Obviously, a down-fill or partial down-fill will do wonders for warmth and breathability. Mine has a removable hood with a stand-up collar, which is a nice option. In my opinion, anything longer than knee-length looks like you walked out of the woods wearing your sleeping bag, but I'm sure in a places like Minnesota this could be useful.

You can find these just about anywhere (Old Navy, American Eagle, J Crew, LL Bean, department stores, etc.). Some options I like: here and here.

A 3-in-1 coat

This coat got me through my 4 years at Michigan. A good quality 3-in-1 will be expensive, but will last you forever. I'm going on 11 years with my EMS version, and it still looks great through blizzards, torrential downpours, and spills in the snow . You should find one with a fleece or insulated jacket option that snaps or zips into a waterproof shell. You can wear the shell year-round for the waterproof aspect (in rain or snow), and the insulated layer in the fall. Make sure the shell is waterproof. I'd recommend going with a fleece over the quilted versions, for more versatility.

You can find these at EMS, North Face, Eddie Bauer, LL Bean, REI, or Patagonia.

A fleece coat

As I said above, the fleece jacket is very versatile. You can wear them on casual days in the fall, or even layer it over sweaters and scarves in the winter. I have North Face and Patagonia fleece jackets, and I think the Patagonia is totally worth the money (the North Face, not so much). The Patagonia has a windproof lining that makes it really really warm (whereas the North Face leaks cold air on windy days), and it has held up really well over the years (10 years now)...the North Face looks old and pilled after just 4 years.

A neutral wool peacoat

The coats above are great functional pieces, but you need a tailored and more dressy option as well! When looking for a peacoat, check out the materials and try and get a feel for it. Wool can be super itchy or super soft, depending on the blend and quality. You should expect to shell out a decent amount for something you'd like to keep for years. I actually have 2 peacoats that I love - a knee-length camel coat from J Crew (the one pictured - Plaza Coat - with Thinsulate, making it really warm), and a calf-length black coat from Macys. I personally love the feel and heft of wool-cashmere blends, and always stay away from double-breasted styles. When you try on coats, consider how they feel with and without thicker sweaters underneath, how they feel when you stretch and move your arms, and how it looks with and without the collar popped.

recent faves and raves

I've had some good shopping luck for the last few months. Believe me, with all of these post-holiday sales, it's been tough to have any sort of discipline or self-control! But I stuck to my wishlist, patiently waited for sales and codes, and came out with a few items that I absolutely adore.

Steve Madden Veronna boots (Sold out on the SM site)

I'd been pining for the Frye Veronica Slouch boots for over a year now. Sadly, every time I found a sale, they sold out super quickly. I spotted the SM Veronna boots and knew I'd found a great stand-in (they were also featured by Jen at TheLook4Less). I'm so impressed with the quality and color (a perfect worn-but-still-dark brown), and the leather is not stiff like Fryes can be (even after a few years of wear, my old Campus boots never really softened up). The sole is not as luggy as the Fryes, and the fit is definitely closer to the leg (I often have trouble with boots being too wide). I found them on sale, and with an additional 30% off and free shipping, they were a fab deal! I live in them now!

Sir Alistair Rai Sammi scarf

I LOVE Sir Alistair Rai scarves. The fabric is a soft soft cotton and they are so unique. I love the larger size of them...perfect for travel to use as a blanket or shawl, and the perfect weight for year-round wear. The Sammi scarf has a bold and bright print...I spotted it on one of the online sample sale sites, and it sold out nearly instantly. Finally found, on sale, and with an additional discount code, this pretty thing was finally mine.

Calypso Christiane Celle Pazzi dress

I saw this on so many girls in the city last summer, styled in about a hundred different ways. Belted, dressed up, dressed down, with jackets and cardis...the simple shape is flattering (yet perfect for a big brunch or dinner), and the signature Calypso silk is THE best material to take on a beach vaca. Even after it went on sale, I didn't bite, trying to convince myself that I had enough summer dresses. Been kicking myself ever since! After the New Year, my ridiculously low best offer on ebay was accepted on a never-worn coral Pazzi. It is gorgeous! I think I need it in navy and black as well. Hopefully Calypso comes back with it next summer...def not making the same mistake twice!

Lauren Merkin Large Plum

This has been on and off my wishlist for YEARS. Not even kidding. Years! So many cheap stand-ins that fell apart and didn't fit the bill. No longer. Found on sale and for an additional 50% off! The size is huge...I recently stuffed it with purse things, papers, and a mag for a day trip and it was great. The color is divine. A dark rusty brown with a reptile pattern, which is actually a really cool feature that I love! LM's purses are such great quality. I have 2 other clutches and the leather is so buttery soft. Worth every penny, but even better on sale!

Urban Outfitters Silence & Noise Intarsia Sweater

I have Amber at Amber'sNotebook to thank (or blame - ha!) for this one. Spotted on her blog and worn effortlessly and stylishly....I was smitten from the get-go. Of course, once I decided I had to have it, every store in the country was sold out! I visited at least 6 different stores, in 2 different states. Poor husband had to endure my quest, as I described the sweater as best I could to clueless sales associates. It finally popped back up online in limited sizes and I pounced. So what if it's a size too big? I just wear it with leggings, tall boots, and belt it to get the proportions right.

Cole Haan Air Dana Ballet Flats

I've never really liked Cole Haan shoes - they always struck me as overpriced, a little matronly, and uncomfortable to boot (no pun intended - bwaha!) I saw these at Lord & Taylor before realizing the brand. Even more surprised when I tried them on. So cute, and so so comfy. I guess because of the Air Nike technology? I must have had my head in the sand, because I did not know about this union. Anyway, I could seriously walk for hours and hours in these. Most ballet flats hurt my feet and ankles after a while...not enough support for my high arches. But these are definitely different. The color is neutral enough to go with anything, and the pattern adds interest (plus a few scuffs would hardly be noticeable). Purchased at Lord & Taylor on sale and with a wedding giftcard (we cannot seem to get rid of these!)

wishlist for reals

Ok so I put out my long-term lust list. The items that, whenever they are acquired, will hold a treasured and permanent place in my home. That's all fine and good to drool over every so often, but I still have a more realistic wishlist of items I hope to pick up this year!

Lululemon Gear

I've bought workout clothing everywhere from Target to Old Navy to Nike. Most of it hasn't fared so well through countless washes and wearings. I think this is the year I step it up and invest in some Lululemon. I'm intrigued by the patented Luon material that wicks away moisture and holds in all the lumps and bumps. In particular, I've got my eye on the famous Groove pant for it's booty-flattering quality, the cropped Run pants for their mesh paneling behind the knees (perfect for spin class), a moisture-wicking jacket to wear to/from gym, Rock Out shorts for their not-so-short inseam (also great for spin in the summer), and various tanks that I swear have looked great on every girl I've seen. If the eastern seaboard doesn't get out of this deep freeze anytime soon, I might also go and pick up some thermal-lined running leggings I saw a while back in store.

Items in this set: lululemon - Tracker Jacket, $98 lululemon - Groove Pant*R, $98 lululemon - Competition Jacket, $138 lululemon - Run:Kozy Tech Tights, $98 lululemon - Run:Empower Crop II, $86

American Apparel / Alternative Apparel tees

I lived in these last spring/summer. Paired with skinnies, a long cardi, flats, a statement necklace or fun earrings, and a high messy bun...it was my go-to uniform. I've gotten rid of most of my more fitted tops that hug the stomach, preferring flattering drapes and looser styles. These tees are perfect for that - body skimming yet not too tight. Although I'm partial to American Apparel's Tri-Blend deep-v tees, their marketing campaigns and photos creep me out more and more. Alternative Apparel's Burnout tees are fast becoming a celeb staple, and I love the unique texture and look of the fabric. The one thing holding me back is price - while you can find Am.App. pretty easily and on the cheap via ebay, Alt.App. prices have slowly been creeping up and they aren't as ubiquitous.

Superga Sneakers

I still remember my first J Crew purchase. It was from the catalog, in the days when they included the order forms that you could mail in. I filled out the information as neatly as I could, and begged my parents to call in the order. About 2 weeks later, they were at our doorstep. A supercool, superbasic pair of sneakers. White and canvas, they were a preppier look than my Chucks, but still comfy and cool. J Crew stopped making these sneaks ages ago, but the Superga ones are a pretty close match. I'm not sure which preceded which. All I know is that I lived in those JC shoes until they fell apart. I'm eyeing the Supergas in a neutral goes-with-everything taupe (maybe even black or navy...oh so daring am I!), although the red or cobalt are so fun and different.

Items in this set: Superga 2750 Classic (Unisex), $69 Superga 2750 Classic (Women's), $65 Superga 2750 Classic (Unisex), $69 Superga Portofino (Women's), $70 Superga 2750 Classic (Unisex), $69

Long Gray Cardigan

Like I said, I lived in long cardis throughout spring and summer. I need the perfect long gray cardi...not too light, but not to charcoal. This one from J Crew has the right idea, but is a bit too dark and not heathered. The hunt continues...

J Crew Featherweight Cashmere Forever Cardigan ($228)

Twistbands

An item I'm intrigued about. I've seen a few girls with them at the gym, and they seem like such a great alternative to elastics that tear hair. I always get a headache when I'm wearing headbands (possibly due to my larger than average head...trust me, it's a problem), and also when I wear high ponies all day. I actually love the tie-dye version, but might start off with a neutral set. They're no more than $15 for some simple sets, making them an affordable addition to the wishlist.

Kiehls Amino Acid Shampoo

I had to shower at my gym (Equinox) earlier this week when our apartment building's heat and hot water went out. I've blogged before about the Kiehl's products at the gym, but got to fully test them out. Along with the Grapefruit Body wash (smells yummy, but a tad on the runny side), I used the Amino Acid Shampoo and Hair Conditioner & Grooming Aid. The shampoo has coconut oil in it, and smells delectable. It lathers really well and cleans wonderfully. I'm stuck to my Matrix Biolage for its heavier moisturization, but come spring/summer I'm picking up the Kiehls for sure.

Kiehls Amino Acid Shampoo ($18 for 8.4 oz.)